There
is a well-known biological fact that women prefer to seek for love and men for
good sex. However, none can live a satisfying life without lovely relationships.
How to attract a loving relationships?
Here is the method.
Step I: Turning Your Need into Your
Goal
Confess that you cannot live without lovely and
satisfying relationships and make it your goal.
In theory, all goals are definitely achievable, but
in your reality you probably don't really believe it's possible, so it won't
happen.
Therefore, we shall turn your need in lovely
relationships into goal. Believe it or not, miracles do happen, when you
express your persistence, until you get what you want!
This
goal of yours can be accomplished within a few months.
You might want to have just one real lovely date
in the next three months. Not nearly as thrilling of a goal, but a fantastic
step towards a better life.
Step 2:
Create a Declaration of Intent Once a Day,
every morning, write down the goal you've picked. Whatever it is you want to experience,
just write it down once a day. A good format to use is a short sentence, which begins
with "I am now attracting...", "I am now creating...",
"I will now..." or "I now intend...
Linguistically you can do it differently, but
meaning remains the same.
For example:
"I Am
Now Attracting A Loving Relationship Into My Life."
"I Will
Now Attract A Loving Relationship
Into My Life."
"I Now
Intend To Attract A Loving
Relationship Into My Life."
If you say, "I am now with my ideal
partner" you will immediately feel the lie even before you finish saying
it.
However, a statement which begins "I am now
attracting..." or "I now intend..." is true (at least while you
are saying it) and holds no contradiction in your emotions. Of course, this is different
for everyone, so find a wording that works for you.
Step 3:
Celebrate Your Future Success
After writing down your goal, mentally place yourself
in the future, to a day where your goal has been accomplished, and feel the
happiness and excitement you would be feeling, knowing that you have
accomplished your goal.
Just pretend it is, for example, three months from
today, and on that day you have reached your goal. Let's say that this future
day is the day you enjoy the lovely and satisfying relationship you've been
dreaming about.
Whatever it is, just move forward in your mind to that
day, and PRETEND that your goal has been reached, and FEEL the emotions, which
you would feel if you had actually reached your goal.
Feel the happiness, feel the success, feel the proud
accomplishment of knowing that you can use your own inner power to change your
life. Imagine what next goal you'll now go for since you've reached this first
one. Plan a celebration for yourself, and imagine how great you will feel when
you celebrate your accomplishment.
Just generate that positive emotion for a minute or
two, and just bask in it for a few moments.
Step 4: Ask
For Help From Your Future Self
Now, while you are enjoying that feeling, looking back
to today from that future moment, ask yourself what single action you can take,
today, to bring your goal to you faster.
The future you, which has accomplished your goal, knows
what steps need to be taken. From this vantage point, you can ask yourself what
is the next most practical action you can take.
When you get the answer, write it down, and take that
action at some point during the day.
Taking action, no matter how small, is the fastest and
surest way of convincing your subconscious mind that you are serious, and will
do wonders for the quick manifestation of your goals.
A VERY
IMPORTANT NOTE: You might belong to the type of people who had
never experienced lovely relationships in their lives. On the other hand, you might
have chosen once not to think about your future, plan it or expect anything
beautiful out of life. In this case, steps 3-4 will be useless for you.
There
are several things, which will work for you perfectly:
a)
go
and buy
or
order new clothes, shoes for your lovely relationships. The desired person may
appear unexpectedly, so you must be ready.
b)
change
your perfume, cosmetics and add natural scents to your body
c)
take
massage, so that your body will grow receptors
for
pleasant touching and caressing in lovely relationships
d) change your car
e)
master a new
style of walking
f) change your hair style and color
g)
enjoy your
new looks in new clothes in front of mirror,
admire your
changes, just the way your soul mate would do…
(We shall discuss other effective measures in later
articles)
Step 5:
Choose the Same Thing Every Day
Do this daily, until you are done. Work on only one
goal at a time, and don't change goals unless you decide you no longer want the
one you started working on. If you no longer want the goal, choose a new one
and start again. But if you do want your original, don't stop until you have
it.
WARNING: Lack Of Persistence Is The Number One Reason Why
People Do Not Reach Their Goals.
If you give up before you reach your goal, you
obviously don't want it very much, do you?
Pick a goal that you cannot live without,
and start again...
This method only takes about 5 or 10
minutes with your morning coffee and works flawlessly.
Good luck to you!
P.S. This article is based on materials from Ilya Alexi’s book “Mind
Over Money”
Love,
Natalia Levis-Fox
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